Tuesday, August 28, 2012

A View from Mindy Starnes Clark and John Campbell Clark's Window! - Echoes of the Titanic

 
 
Let's look back at my trip to Orlando, shall we?  Mindy and John Clark are a very talented, very in love couple who have just published their first novel together!  I seriously doubt it will be thier last.  Please join me as we discuss their novel, Echoes of the Titanic!

Where was the idea for this story born?  Our publisher suggested the idea, and I immediately  became very excited because John is a HUGE Titanic buff.  John has always played a huge role in my writing. He’s my brainstorm partner my research partner, my first reader, my story helper…he has always been a co-author anyway.  The idea was suggested  four years ago in anticipation of the Titanic’s anniversary.

John:  I’m a lawyer by trade and I write all the time anyway – just in a different style.

Mindy – John has an instinct for story like no one I’ve every met.  He can detect where the story lags, and where the characters need more development and suggest ideas that take my story from good to the next level of Wow!  I’ve never had as much fun as writing with my husband. 

Who began the actual story idea?

Mindy – actually I was tied up with other things, so John was left alone with the story for quite some time.

John – I had to find a relationship between the history of the Titanic and a modern day story that would create mystery. I had to ask the question: “What would carry through time?” 

Mindy – early in the story, it is suggested that someone that survived the sinking of the Titanic switched places with someone who died and that the person that survived is not who she says she is.  That idea is carried forward into present day by a woman who idolizes her great-grandmother and the history  of her survival.  She works at the company that her great-grandmother founded….and then she is publically challenged by the news that instead of the great role model…her great grandmother is a liar and wasn’t who she said she was at all.

How did you find time to write together? 

Mindy – John actually wrote a lot of the story.

John – I outlined the story.

Mindy – what he wrote only needed to be polished

We finally had to crunch an intense couple of weeks together and get the story done…around the clock.  I had a three week period just after sending another project in to my publisher, so we went to our vacation house and just wrote around the clock.  He was in one room and I was in another, and we would take our notes and tear them into strips and lay them out on the bed and physically build the story together.  We had it spread  it out all over the place.

The original idea was to tell the entire modern story at once and then tell the entire historical story at once.  About a week before the story was due to the publisher Mindy had the idea to intertwine the two. 

Mindy – we tell about five chapters of modern and a chapter of historical.

Will we see more titles with both your names on the cover?

Mindy – It was too much fun not to do it again! I think it woke up his inner writing voice. Now he keeps hinting about writing about the Lucitania because the 100th anniversary of it history is only three years away.

John – and it would be a spy novel

Mindy – and it would be a wonderful companion  to the Titanic.

What is it like to win a Christy Award?  It’s so exciting to win a Christy! It was thrilling to have that affirmation of my work – our work. (co-author on  the Christy-award winning novel was Leslie Gould.

You have three projects out that were co-authored with others. How was the process different with each writing partner?

Leslie Gould is an artist  - a real word crafter – she is a precious Christian lady that I was willing to do it a second time

John is such a great story crafter

Kim is such an amazing resource  

They all brought something very different to the process of crafting a novel that it was completely different every time – but very rewarding! I’d heard horror stories about writing with someone, and that has not been my experience at all

Writing is a very lonely occupation, and you don’t realize how lonely until you’ve written with someone – our deadline is not my deadline but it’s our deadline. It was so much fun to have someone to share all of that with – at every level.

Do you have any solo projects in the works?

I’m like an idea machine…I wish I could turn it off occasionally! Nothing that I can talk about right now…but I have a lot of stuff in the works.

I’m rewriting a non-fiction project right now, The House That Cleans Itself – it was very successful when it released.   When I wrote it the first time, I was kind of feeling my way through how to explain the concept. Now, after  a lot of feedback from people who have worked the program, I feel like I can restructure the book so it’s easier to understand  and follow the program.  It will come out in January.

Will there be more non fiction?

Yes. I think non-fiction pulls from a different side of my brain. For me, fiction is hard but fun, and non-fiction is easy but boring. Non-fiction is kind of like writing a book report, and I don’t have to get in the “zone” and stay there until I get it down. I wish I could do one non-fiction for every three or four fiction titles – that’s a nice rhythm for me.

John – now that you’ve tapped into the fiction writer in you, are there any stories in you that you want to share?

You might be talking to me next year! (BIG smile!)

Mindy - Our daughter just graduated from college, and she’s an amazing writer, and I (Mindy) see the two of them writing something together.

John – “Some families sit and watch tv together, and we sit down and write together.

Closing word of encouragement that you’d like to share with readers or other writers?

Mindy - To other writer’s  - hang in there. When I graduated from college I thought I’d write a best-seller and have it published within a year – it took me twenty years before I even wrote something that was good enough to even try to sell.  I thought that was wasted time – but in hindsight – thank the Lord that it happened when it did and not any sooner! It would have been a disaster! God knows what He’s doing and He has this timing under control. 

So keep at it, polish your craft and trust God for the timing.

To my reader’s – I have two roles when I write - first to entertain, I don’t want you to go to bed at night because you can’t put my book down to go to sleep.  And secondly, I hope that I’m giving you stories that are good enough that you will pass them along to both Christian and non-Christian and that the story will bring truth and light into some dark places and will be comforting and that will answer questions in their lives.

What is God doing in your life right now?

Well, a year ago in April, I was at our vacation home and tripped and fell and suffered a brain injury. A bad one to my left frontal lobe – the word center of the brain.  The busiest year of my life – when I had three books to write – I blew out my brain. It was the worst year of my life in that aspect, but God was working out His plan in me.  It probably saved my life in a way because I had such bad work habits, was pulling all-nighters, and I shouldn’t do that at my age.  

And I was writing the book with Kim about a woman turning fifty – and asking the question: “Without my looks, who am I?” and I could relate to that in a real way when I was struggling to find words as a person who has always been a writer. Suddenly, I totally “got” that character, because I had to answer the question “Who am I?” in my own life.

It has slowed me down.  God is showing me how to enjoy my life in a whole new way.

John – how did Mindy’s injury impact your life?  The hardest thing for any man is to know he can’t fix something.  And I couldn’t do anything to help.  I kept wanting to ask, “Are you better yet?”  and it was frustrating to know I couldn’t do anything to speed up the process. I had to learn to turn the situation over to God completely. It was scary to watch a brain injury heal.   I learned how to surrender to God.

Monday, August 27, 2012

Tea Party Culture War by Stephen Johnston - Reviewed

About the Book: (from WinePress)

ARE YOU SHAKEN BY THE DIRECTION AMERICA IS TAKING?

Wondering about where political, financial, and environmental trends are taking America and the world, and how Christianity fits in? Pondering what political party should take control of America to help turn things around?

Stephen Johnston, B.S., J.D. addresses the troublesome times Americans are finding themselves in. Tea Party Culture War contains clear discussions and explanations of the:

• Culture war between theism, naturalism, and pantheism
• Trend of liberalism and postmodernism in America
• Disintegration of the family, breakdown of morality, and bias of the education system
• Negative effects of central banking and Keynesian economics worldwide
• Dangers of open interpretation of the Constitution
• Effects of entitlements and resource wars on America and the world
• Current religious trends
• Biblical prophecy of the impending end times

This book sheds light on modern times and gives a glimpse into the turbulent times ahead—and provides a Christian worldview with which to approach it all.  

My Thoughts:  

Beliefs have consequences.  If America is to prosper again, we must return to the faith of our Fathers.”
AND we must return to the TRUTH of the Bible! (that’s my personal add-on to this statement) Tea Party Culture War is not a political guide.  Rather, this book provides a Biblical guide-line for all Christians as they vote in any election.  Johnson historically outlines the cultural development of a variety of worldviews.  He is speaking truth, folks.  His outline of the development of and the divisiveness of worldviews that stand in opposition of the Scripture is both enlightening and challenging.  My take away from this book is that I need to know what the Bible says and be able to discern whether or not my candidate aligns himself with the truth of God’s Word.
This doesn’t just apply to political candidates either.  Leaders of any group, pastors of any church, they ought to be teaching the truth that is taught in the Bible.  Scripture admonishes believers to be able to discern between true and false doctrine.  Johnson takes that challenge into every area of the 21st Century!  This book is timely and relevant, and Christians should know the truth of God’s Word before they go to the polls to vote, before they choose a church home, before they do anything.  This book is an admonition to follow Christ.  A challenge to all Christians to stand up for Christ in a world that continues to grow darker with the lies of the enemy.  Tea Party Culture War is a must read for anyone who wants to be able to understand how our country has fallen so far from what the Bible teaches and what our Founding Fathers intended for this country.

You can buy a copy of the book HERE.
About the Author:
A long-time resident of California, author and economist, Steve Johnston, B.S., J.D., earned a Juris Doctorate degree from Western State University of Law and a Theological degree from Calvary Chapel School of Ministry. Mr. Johnston has over 20 years experience in prison ministry and Bible teaching, and has served as a chaplain in Orange County and Los Angeles jails as well as Pelican Bay, a California maximum security prison.

Mr. Johnston describes his book, The Tea Party Culture War (WinePress, 2011) as a systematic manifesto of the Tea Party Movement. Mr. Johnston and his wife of 38 years divide their time between homes in Palm Desert, California and Brookings, Oregon. They have one adult daughter and one granddaughter.



 

Friday, August 24, 2012

Desperate for Hope by Bruce W. Martin - REVIEWED



About the Book: (from Revell)

There is hope after life falls apart.

A single phone call can change your life.
There's been an accident.
You have cancer.
The company's downsizing.
Your spouse wants out.

All of a sudden everything spins out of control.

At some point, we've all felt painful loss, bitter disappointment, embarrassing failure, unthinkable betrayal, and the seeming randomness of suffering. Some of us have faced death. Sometimes it all happens at once. And we have quietly wondered (or maybe even screamed), "Why is this happening to me? Where is God in all of this?"

The answer may surprise you.

With sincere sympathy and ready encouragement, Bruce W. Martin takes you through a grieving process that will help you reconcile your deep suffering with your beliefs about God. A unique and compassionate take on the age-old question of suffering, this book is for anyone who has experienced life-shattering pain.

My Thoughts:
Desperate for Hope is an extremely important, frank, honest, and encouraging look at trials in this life and what they can and will accomplish in the believer’s life if we cling to our faith, and rest in God’s strength.  Once again, I’ve met with a God-appointment within the pages of this book.  I’m looking at Scripture through tear-washed eyes and beholding the wondrous love of my Savior!!  I know that my trials are accomplishing purposeful things in my life, and when I read the chapters of this book, and all of the Scriptural truth contained within the trials recorded there, I find renewed strength.

Martin takes you step by step through a process of understanding the importance of trials in our life.   He wants us to see earthly trials with eternal and heavenly perspective.  He acknowledges the doubt and fear that plagues us in the midst of our storms, and even points out that God allows us to walk headlong into the storms that we face.  But what we learn in within the storm is eternal and vital to our faith.  There IS purpose.  Eternal purpose.

Martin ends each chapter with questions that guide the reader to thoughtfully consider their own story within the context of God’s purpose.  It is both difficult and healing.  No matter if you’ve just entered the storm, or emerged from the other side, you need to read this book!  It will give you a fresh perspective, and a healthy dose of the hope you are so desperately seeking.  This is a most excellent book!!

About the Author:
Bruce W. Martin is the pastor of a new church plant in Alabama. He has been a pastor and counselor for fifteen years and speaks and teaches in the United States and abroad. With the help of God he has survived his own soul-shattering pain and seeks to guide others through theirs.

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Story: Our Journey of Heartache and Grace from Eden to Evermore by Steven James - REVIEWED


About the Book: (from Revell)

Recapture the mystery of God's story

With stunning imagery, powerful poetry, and real-life drama, Story is an inspiring journey from the creation of the world to eternity and everything in between. Consummate storyteller Steven James threads together familiar scenes from Scripture that will awaken your faith and inspire you to live in the reality of Christ's sacrifice. As he untangles the intricacies of the whole story of the Bible, you will rediscover the majesty and the mystery you've been missing.

My Thoughts:
I have been a huge fan of Steven James since I read his first suspense novel in the Patrick Bowers series. HUGE FAN! Now, after reading Story, I’m an ever BIGGER fan! (if that is even possible!) His words describing his relationship with Christ, the transforming power of God’s Word, his poetic response to that transformation in his own life….I am just blown away!! James is a master word smith, and his insight is so beautiful and so real that your heart is both moved and changed as he shares his thoughts on the mystery of real relationship with Christ.


This is an unusual book, in that it’s not a dry thematic approach to God’s Word. James’ approach is to respond in Holy reverence, alongside raw wonder at the things God’s Word reveals about both God and His creation – all of it! It is both profound and deeply personal.

I have an entirely new respect for my favorite suspense author! My heart has been touched and changed. We do serve an amazing GOD!!! I'm so glad He has gifted Steven James with the words to express that wondrous relationship!


About the Author:
Critically acclaimed author Steven James has written more than thirty books, including Story, A Heart Exposed, and the bestselling Patrick Bowers thriller series. He is considered one of the nation's most innovative storytellers and versatile authors, and is a contributing editor to Writer's Digest. Steven lives in Tennessee with his wife and three daughters.

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

When You Need a Miracle by Linda Evans Shepherd - REVIEWED


About the Book: (From Revell)

When we hurt, we want a God who is big enough to rescue us from heartache and circumstances beyond our imagination. But even if we believe that such a God exists, we don't always know how to approach him, much less how to ask him for the impossible.

Linda Evans Shepherd knows what it's like to be in desperate need of a miracle. And she knows what it's like to receive God's answers to her prayers. In this powerful book, she shows you how to reach out to God and simply ask. She shows how God's answers may not come packaged in the ways we would expect, but they do come in ways that will transform our lives. Through solid biblical teaching and dramatic real-life stories, Shepherd walks with you on a journey of renewed hope and the assurance that God still works miracles.

My Thoughts:
I’m not sure When You Need a Miracle is the right title for this book. Seriously. I know we all have life circumstances beyond our control that cause us to cry out to God. I know we all have times when our faith is weak and we wonder if anyone hears our prayers. And Linda Evans Shepherd addresses all of this and more in her book. But this book is not about asking God for miracles as much as it is a Biblical Guide to prayer and understanding the spiritual elements of prayer in our lives and the spiritual warfare in which we are engaged as Christians when we pray.


This is not a book on prayer either, although it contains many powerful prayers and suggestions about how to pray and what to pray about. Linda’s understanding of prayer is AMAZING!! I know God has used her mightily in prayer ministry. I learned SO MUCH about prayer, but more than that, I learned what relationship with my Heavenly Father should look like. I learned about areas of my faith where I need to grow and change. I learned how to pray effectively for the trials I’m now facing in my life and I learned how to stand in the gap for others and wage battle on their behalf. I learned so much, in fact, that I’m re-reading the book.

I’ve often said many of the books that are put in my hands for review are God-appointments in my life. When You Need a Miracle was DEFINITELY one of those books for me!! What a tremendous blessing I have received through reading this book! If you want to learn what the Bible teaches about prayer, relationship with God through the shed blood of Christ, how to be an effective warrior in the spiritual battle that rages about us in this world, if you want to understand more about really seeing God work in your life and experience His answer to prayer in a personal way…..don’t wait another minute!! Buy a copy of Linda Evans Shepherd’s book When You Need a Miracle today!! And while you’re at it, buy a copy to share with a friend!! This is an amazing book!!


About the Author:
Linda Evans Shepherd is the author of over thirty books including When You Don't Know What to Pray: How to Talk to God about Anything and When You Can't Find God: How to Ignite the Power of His Presence, and the co-author of the popular series the Potluck Club and the Potluck Catering Club. Linda is an international speaker and media personality and is the creator of RightToTheHeart.tv and appears as a frequent host of Daystar's Denver Celebration.


She's the leader of the Advanced Writers and Speakers Association and president of the nonprofit ministry Right to the Heart, which has seen over 500,000 people come to faith. She's married and has two children. To learn more about Linda, her speaking, and her ministries, see VisitLinda.com.






Confessions of a Control Freak by Priscilla Knox Morrison - REVIEWED

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

You never know when I might play a wild card on you!



Today's Wild Card author is:


and the book:

Harvest House Publishers (August 1, 2012)

***Special thanks to Ginger Chen of Harvest House Publishers for sending me a review copy.***

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Priscilla Knox Morrison serves in a women’s prison ministry, speaks at conferences and retreats on women’s issues, and writes on topics related to these ministries. Priscilla enjoys entertaining, playing with her grandchildren, reading, crocheting, and walking in the woods on the Blue Ridge Mountains where she resides with her husband, Larry.


Visit the author's website.





SHORT BOOK DESCRIPTION:

For every woman who can’t let go of control—and for those who live and work with them—comes Confessions of a Control Freak, by Priscilla Knox Morrison. Through her practical advice and humorous personal illustrations, readers will learn to accept their limitations and trust God with the future.


Product Details:
List Price: $9.99
Paperback: 144 pages
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0736946209
ISBN-13: 978-0736946209



My Thoughts:

“There’s  nothing to fear.  We can trust God when we’re up against worry, when things are falling apart, when we don’t have the answers, when we don’t know the outcome.” (p. 143)

Talk about a GOD APPOINTMENT in my life!! WOW! I have been convicted, challenged, and changed as I read this book.  I’ve made tons of highlights and underlines and fully intend to share this with a co-worker tomorrow. WOW!

I am a control freak.  And God has been busy transforming my life.  It has been unpleasant and painful at times.  It has been humbling and awe-filled at others.  Right now, I know that I know that I know that  Priscilla Knox Morrison wrote this book for me.

Read it.  Re-read it.  And allow God to open your eyes to truth and trust!  AMEN, Sister Morrison!! AMEN!!!
AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:


So…What Are We
Talking About Here?
We all know a control freak when we see one. It’s the person hardly anyone can stand to work with because it’s her way or the highway. The mother whose children have to file their socks. The father who gets obedience from his family but scares the living daylights out of them. The guy who can’t relax because things around him aren’t perfect. Or the woman next to me on a plane recently who not only demonstrated how to put my tray down, but told me where to put my cup. These people can be the bane of our existence, or worse, we might realize that we’re control freaks too.
Am I a control freak?
Perhaps you’re honestly asking yourself, “How do I know if I’m a control freak?” Here are some recognizable signs:
· nagging others
· trying to orchestrate outcomes
· butting into others’ affairs
· worrying about things beyond your control
· feeling anxiety about the future
· never feeling peaceful
· needing everything to be in perfect order
It takes some harsh evaluating to recognize some of these habits in yourself. If you’re a detail person, it’s tricky to wear the planning hat and not put on the micromanaging hat at the same time. Before admitting to this aspect of my nature, I was a very frustrated person. I grew up in a big family, and I was the neatnik. I loved to clean and organize and had plenty to work with since our house was always Grand Central Station. If I was a control freak when I was younger, though, I certainly wasn’t aware of it! Then I got married and had children. If you’re single and think you might be a bit of a control freak, just get married and have some kids. Your tendencies will blossom into a garden of full-blown habits.
My husband, Larry, and I have six children. I wanted all six. I love all six. But it was in parenting that my control freak dilemma surfaced. I still marvel at how many details come into play for eight people to get through one day—you have to plan for rising times, cooking, dishes, carpooling, surprise throw-ups, chores (yours and training them to do theirs), squabbles, laundry, missing socks, sports (in different locations simultaneously), music lessons, music practice, weather (which is always a challenge to control), grocery shopping, phone calls, junk mail (thankfully e-mail hadn’t been invented during those busy days), paying bills, running to the Emergency Room, making reservations, visiting friends, helping each child with homework, doctors’ visits, church activities, clubs, kind deeds, character building, listening, encouraging, wife-ing, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. Over time, I morphed from detail-person to Frau Commandant. When did I cross the line? Where did good mothering, wife-ing, and friending end and controlling begin?
Where does the term “control freak” come from?
Curious as to how exactly the term “control freak” became so popular, I decided to look up the word control in the dictionary. According to Webster, control means…
· to regulate financial affairs
· to verify, as an experiment, by comparison with a standard
· to exercise authority over; direct; command
· to curb; restrain; hold back
· authority to direct or regulate
· a means of restraint; check
· a standard of comparison for verifying or checking the findings of an experiment
· an instrument or apparatus to regulate a mechanism; as, the controls of an airplane
See anything negative here? When I read this, a light went on. Not all control is bad. I had become so self-critical about my controlling nature that I was afraid to tell my kids to take out the trash. My new goal was to figure out how my personality could flourish without driving others nuts. There might be a place in the world for someone with my gifts!
If the term “control” isn’t all bad, then perhaps being controlling isn’t all bad either. Yes! I asked friends about conditions in which it was proper or valid to be controlling, and they mentioned these situations:
· when taking care of children or the elderly; when you’re responsible for other people
· when you’re the chairperson of a committee
· when you need to take charge in an emergency
· when you’re an employer managing a business
· when you’re in an experimental laboratory and there must be strict control of conditions
· when it’s a question of duty—military leaders, police officers
· when it’s forced upon you by people who are too passive
· when you’re in church leadership
So what’s a “control freak”?
You know them. You avoid them:
· the mother who watches her child’s every move
· the friend who tries to orchestrate a situation to his or her benefit
· the husband who wants to monitor his wife’s comings and goings
· someone who wants to make all the decisions at the office with no input from others
· the one who deliberately joins the committee in order to run the show
· the acquaintance who continually gives unsolicited advice
We get the idea. When people call us control freaks, they’re not paying us a compliment.
When I started journaling on the subject, I actually thought that control was a woman’s problem. This probably grew from my frustrations as a wife and mother and knowing so many other women who were in the same boat. In time I saw that control is, of course, a human problem. I think we all have our areas where we’d like to have more control—some of us just have more areas! The urge to control is a universal trait found in women and men alike. My paternal grandfather, for instance, controlled the household finances, and my grandmother had to go to him each day for the grocery money. The man was into control.
Am I a hopeless case?
In the midst of many happy years of raising what I felt was a wonderful family came some agonizing times. As life spun out of control I was frustrated beyond belief. I had many difficult lessons to learn if we were all going to survive. Three things helped me make progress.
1. Finding that the Bible, God’s holy Word, was relevant for today. And not only was it relevant, but it was true, and it worked. Whenever I took the time to search out an answer in Scripture, I got help. And amidst all the wisdom and help was a relational God who loved me and graciously revealed purpose to all I was going through.
2. Reading several books, which I’ll reference throughout. It’s fun to keep learning and discovering through the wisdom and experience of those who have been through the same struggles.
3. Discovering prayer. I was raised in a Christian home, I married a pastor, and I taught my kids about Jesus, all without much prayer. Simple, right? Nope—it was the hardest—and most foolish—thing I ever tried.
What drives us to control others, or even just our own circumstances?
Some of what drives me—and perhaps you too—will be covered in the following chapters. Each of us has our own past and our own unique personality, both of which form our reactions and responses to life. But control freaks all have some things in common. They might say things like…
· I actually have more talents and abilities than some others I work with.
· I want to feel better about myself.
· I’m afraid—afraid of the future, afraid of losing control, afraid to trust someone else, afraid of failure, and afraid for those I love.
Are any of these statements true for you? If so, perhaps you will identify with one or more of the confessions that follow. If you find yourself in these pages, I hope you will turn to the God who enlightens, forgives, delivers, and, most of all, loves.
Before we dive in, take a few minutes to consider the following questions about your own need to take control and your attitude toward those who seek to control you.
CONTROL FREAK QUESTIONNAIRE
1. In your own words, describe a control freak.
2. Would you consider yourself to be a control freak? Why or why not? (If not, skip to question 10.)
3. If yes, does this bother you about yourself? Why or why not?
4. Do others accuse you of being a control freak? If so, why do you think they do?
5. Does it bother you that others feel this way toward you? Why?
6. What might you like to change about yourself, if anything, as it relates to this issue?
7. What do you think may cause you to seek control? Is it just a part of your personality? Does it relate to your childhood experiences?
8. How did you first become aware of this tendency?
9. Can you think of certain circumstances that cause you to want control?
10. Think of someone you would describe as a control freak. What do you think causes them to act in this way?
11. Do you have a good relationship with this person? If you do, how have you learned to get along with them? If not, what changes would need to be made before you could be close?
12. What do you find most difficult about your relationship with this person? Have you been able to talk with them about it? If so, what was the outcome?
13. If you could communicate one idea to this person, what would it be?
14. Do you think it is ever proper/valid to be controlling? Explain.
15. If you are a person who reads the Bible, what have the Scriptures taught you in regard to the desire to control other people and events?
16. What have other people and life experiences taught you about control issues?